1 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:07,872 [MUSIC PLAYING] 2 00:00:12,310 --> 00:00:14,440 Why is change so hard? 3 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,160 And why do so many people talk about a better future, a better 4 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,560 body, or a better mindset, but yet they 5 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:25,330 can't seem to actually change on a deeper level? 6 00:00:25,330 --> 00:00:30,750 Why do so many of us wait for crisis, trauma, disease, 7 00:00:30,750 --> 00:00:35,610 diagnosis, betrayal, or even loss 8 00:00:35,610 --> 00:00:38,450 to finally make up our mind to change? 9 00:00:38,450 --> 00:00:40,620 I believe that we can learn and change 10 00:00:40,620 --> 00:00:42,950 in a state of pain and suffering. 11 00:00:42,950 --> 00:00:46,910 Or we can learn and change in a state of joy and inspiration. 12 00:00:46,910 --> 00:00:49,310 Which will you choose? 13 00:00:49,310 --> 00:00:51,880 I'm your host, Dr. Joe Dispenza. 14 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,320 And in the previous episode, we went into depth 15 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,810 on how the brain works from a scientific point of view. 16 00:00:57,810 --> 00:01:00,680 Now I want to show you how the brain and the body 17 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:05,150 react to change and what that biological model looks like. 18 00:01:05,150 --> 00:01:08,990 This episode will help you understand a fundamental part 19 00:01:08,990 --> 00:01:11,780 of what it means to become supernatural 20 00:01:11,780 --> 00:01:16,580 so that you as the viewer can move past the pain of yesterday 21 00:01:16,580 --> 00:01:18,470 into the joy of a new future. 22 00:01:18,470 --> 00:01:21,458 [THEME MUSIC] 23 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,908 [MUSIC PLAYING] 24 00:01:36,910 --> 00:01:39,070 What is change? 25 00:01:39,070 --> 00:01:41,980 Let's assume that your thoughts have something 26 00:01:41,980 --> 00:01:43,930 to do with your destiny or your future, 27 00:01:43,930 --> 00:01:47,670 that you believe that your thoughts create your life. 28 00:01:47,670 --> 00:01:50,230 In the last episode, I mentioned that you 29 00:01:50,230 --> 00:01:54,760 think 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts in one day. 30 00:01:54,760 --> 00:02:00,100 And 90% of those thoughts are the same thoughts as the day 31 00:02:00,100 --> 00:02:01,450 before. 32 00:02:01,450 --> 00:02:03,910 So if you believe that your thoughts have something 33 00:02:03,910 --> 00:02:07,750 to do with your future, and 90% of those thoughts 34 00:02:07,750 --> 00:02:11,440 are exactly the same as the day before, then it makes sense 35 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,870 then your life or your future isn't 36 00:02:13,870 --> 00:02:18,510 going to change very much because the same thoughts 37 00:02:18,510 --> 00:02:21,450 always lead to the same choices. 38 00:02:21,450 --> 00:02:25,320 The same choices always lead to the same behaviors. 39 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:29,410 The same behaviors create the exact same experiences. 40 00:02:29,410 --> 00:02:33,510 And the same experiences produce the same emotions. 41 00:02:33,510 --> 00:02:36,030 And those same emotions begin to influence 42 00:02:36,030 --> 00:02:38,010 your very same thoughts. 43 00:02:38,010 --> 00:02:41,830 And everything in your biology stays the same. 44 00:02:41,830 --> 00:02:46,890 Your neurocircuitry, your neurochemistry, your hormones, 45 00:02:46,890 --> 00:02:52,360 and even your gene expression is equal to how you think, 46 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:56,670 how you act, and how you feel. 47 00:02:56,670 --> 00:03:00,670 And how you think, how you act, and how you feel 48 00:03:00,670 --> 00:03:02,380 is called your "personality." 49 00:03:02,380 --> 00:03:04,270 And your personality is intimately 50 00:03:04,270 --> 00:03:08,920 connected to your life or your personal reality. 51 00:03:08,920 --> 00:03:10,840 Reason this with me. 52 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,350 There's a principle in neuroscience called Hebb's law. 53 00:03:14,350 --> 00:03:18,100 And Hebb's law says that nerve cells that fire together 54 00:03:18,100 --> 00:03:19,880 wire together. 55 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:23,590 So if you keep thinking the same thoughts, 56 00:03:23,590 --> 00:03:26,470 making the same choices, demonstrating 57 00:03:26,470 --> 00:03:30,310 the same behaviors, creating the same experiences, 58 00:03:30,310 --> 00:03:34,120 and producing the same feelings and emotions for the last 10 59 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,000 years, it makes sense then you're 60 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,540 going to begin to hardwire your brain into a very 61 00:03:40,540 --> 00:03:42,910 finite signature. 62 00:03:42,910 --> 00:03:48,700 And that box in your brain by the time you're 35 years old 63 00:03:48,700 --> 00:03:51,940 becomes a very hardwired set of programs. 64 00:03:51,940 --> 00:03:56,110 That becomes your identity or personality. 65 00:03:56,110 --> 00:03:59,770 And that 35-year-old mark means that most people 66 00:03:59,770 --> 00:04:02,080 by the time they reach that age become 67 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,740 a set of memorized behaviors, unconscious emotional 68 00:04:05,740 --> 00:04:10,880 reactions, automatic habits, hardwired attitudes, beliefs, 69 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:16,269 and perceptions that function just like a computer program. 70 00:04:16,269 --> 00:04:19,029 So now when a person decides to change 71 00:04:19,029 --> 00:04:22,240 and they're using 5% of their conscious mind 72 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:27,640 to go against what they've memorized subconsciously 95%, 73 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,670 they can think positively all they want. 74 00:04:30,670 --> 00:04:32,830 But that thought will actually never 75 00:04:32,830 --> 00:04:35,680 make it past their brain stem into their body 76 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,080 because their thought is saying one thing, 77 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,690 and their body has been conditioned into the past. 78 00:04:41,690 --> 00:04:46,570 So I assert that if you're not using your thoughts 79 00:04:46,570 --> 00:04:49,450 to be defined by a vision of the future 80 00:04:49,450 --> 00:04:51,880 to create a new life, then you're 81 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,670 left with the memories of your past. 82 00:04:54,670 --> 00:04:58,500 And you will become predictable in your life. 83 00:04:58,500 --> 00:05:00,850 [ALARM BUZZES] 84 00:05:00,850 --> 00:05:02,440 So most people then-- 85 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,830 when they wake up in the morning, they're a clean slate. 86 00:05:05,830 --> 00:05:07,450 They're not thinking anything. 87 00:05:07,450 --> 00:05:09,620 They're not feeling anything. 88 00:05:09,620 --> 00:05:12,910 In a matter of moments, because the brain 89 00:05:12,910 --> 00:05:15,100 is a record of the past, they start 90 00:05:15,100 --> 00:05:18,220 thinking about those problems, those problems in their life 91 00:05:18,220 --> 00:05:21,370 that are associated with certain people and certain objects 92 00:05:21,370 --> 00:05:25,420 and certain things at certain times and places. 93 00:05:25,420 --> 00:05:28,840 The moment they start thinking about those problems, 94 00:05:28,840 --> 00:05:31,030 they're thinking in the past because they 95 00:05:31,030 --> 00:05:33,940 are memories from the past. 96 00:05:33,940 --> 00:05:37,240 And every single one of those conditions or problems 97 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,620 has an emotion associated with them. 98 00:05:39,620 --> 00:05:42,220 And the definition of a feeling or an emotion 99 00:05:42,220 --> 00:05:45,070 is a record of a past experience. 100 00:05:45,070 --> 00:05:48,820 And the moment they get in touch with those familiar feelings, 101 00:05:48,820 --> 00:05:51,398 and those feelings are driving their thoughts, 102 00:05:51,398 --> 00:05:53,440 and you believe that your thoughts have something 103 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:56,290 to do with your destiny, we could say then 104 00:05:56,290 --> 00:05:58,510 they're thinking in the past. 105 00:05:58,510 --> 00:06:00,760 And as long as they're thinking in the past, 106 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,480 their past will always be their future. 107 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,450 Now, certain people-- they get caught 108 00:06:07,450 --> 00:06:09,670 in these loops of thinking and feeling and feeling 109 00:06:09,670 --> 00:06:11,840 and thinking. 110 00:06:11,840 --> 00:06:13,990 Now, why does this happen? 111 00:06:13,990 --> 00:06:16,510 If feelings and emotions are the end product 112 00:06:16,510 --> 00:06:20,680 of past experiences, and you can remember experiences 113 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,920 better because you can remember how they feel, 114 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,980 we could say then that the stronger the emotion 115 00:06:26,980 --> 00:06:30,820 you feel from some problem or condition in your life, 116 00:06:30,820 --> 00:06:34,120 the more altered you feel inside of you, the more it's 117 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:35,118 going to wake you up. 118 00:06:35,118 --> 00:06:36,910 And you're going to pay attention to what's 119 00:06:36,910 --> 00:06:40,070 causing it outside of you. 120 00:06:40,070 --> 00:06:43,030 And when you narrow your focus on the cause, 121 00:06:43,030 --> 00:06:47,390 the brain freezes an image and takes a picture. 122 00:06:47,390 --> 00:06:51,530 And that picture becomes the memory embossed in the brain. 123 00:06:51,530 --> 00:06:55,100 Now people tend to think neurologically 124 00:06:55,100 --> 00:06:58,130 within the circuits of that past experience. 125 00:06:58,130 --> 00:07:01,280 And they tend to feel within the boundaries of those emotions, 126 00:07:01,280 --> 00:07:02,990 which are chemicals. 127 00:07:02,990 --> 00:07:05,750 And of course, how they think and how they feel 128 00:07:05,750 --> 00:07:08,360 becomes their state of being. 129 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:12,530 And you can say to a person, why are you this way? 130 00:07:12,530 --> 00:07:16,910 And they will say, I am this way because of some experience 131 00:07:16,910 --> 00:07:20,810 that happened to me 35 years ago. 132 00:07:20,810 --> 00:07:23,870 And what they're saying from biological standpoint-- 133 00:07:23,870 --> 00:07:27,980 that 35 years ago, they had an event that altered them. 134 00:07:27,980 --> 00:07:32,880 And they have not been able to change since. 135 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,240 Now, the latest research on memory 136 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:41,420 says that 50% of what you talk about in your past 137 00:07:41,420 --> 00:07:44,450 isn't even the truth. 138 00:07:44,450 --> 00:07:50,060 That memory is creative because you don't have the same brain 139 00:07:50,060 --> 00:07:53,582 that you had 35 years ago. 140 00:07:53,582 --> 00:07:55,820 And what does that mean? 141 00:07:55,820 --> 00:07:59,630 People embellish the memories of the experience 142 00:07:59,630 --> 00:08:03,500 to reaffirm the emotion that they are identifying with that 143 00:08:03,500 --> 00:08:05,790 keeps them in the past. 144 00:08:05,790 --> 00:08:09,590 And in a sense, we could say then the person 145 00:08:09,590 --> 00:08:14,200 is reliving a miserable life that they never even had. 146 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,990 And their brain and body neurologically and chemically 147 00:08:17,990 --> 00:08:22,910 are being further tacked or conditioned into the past. 148 00:08:22,910 --> 00:08:25,760 And so people get caught in these loops of thinking 149 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,920 and feeling and feeling and thinking 150 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,940 for 10, 20, 30, and 40 years. 151 00:08:31,940 --> 00:08:34,940 And the redundancy of that cycle of thinking and feeling 152 00:08:34,940 --> 00:08:38,179 and feeling and thinking conditions the body 153 00:08:38,179 --> 00:08:41,840 to subconsciously become the mind of that emotion. 154 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,110 And when the body becomes the mind of that emotion, 155 00:08:45,110 --> 00:08:48,500 now the body literally is in the past. 156 00:08:48,500 --> 00:08:51,275 And you can't create a new future holding 157 00:08:51,275 --> 00:08:54,470 on to the emotions of your past. 158 00:08:54,470 --> 00:08:57,970 And in a sense, your body is your unconscious mind. 159 00:08:57,970 --> 00:08:59,840 It's objective. 160 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:03,440 It does not know the difference between an actual experience 161 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:07,070 in your life that's creating an emotion and the emotion 162 00:09:07,070 --> 00:09:10,370 that you're creating or fabricating by thought alone. 163 00:09:10,370 --> 00:09:14,000 It means then that your body is believing 164 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:18,990 it's living in the same past experience 24 hours a day, 165 00:09:18,990 --> 00:09:23,090 seven days a week, 365 days a year. 166 00:09:23,090 --> 00:09:26,910 To the body, it literally is in the past. 167 00:09:26,910 --> 00:09:31,280 So then to change then is to be greater than your body, 168 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,825 to be greater than the conditioning of the body 169 00:09:33,825 --> 00:09:34,625 living in the past. 170 00:09:37,770 --> 00:09:40,440 Now, what do most people do once they reaffirm the thoughts 171 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,240 and feelings, their state of being that 172 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,720 keep them in the familiar past? 173 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:48,170 They start to crave the predictable future. 174 00:09:48,170 --> 00:09:50,660 So living in the familiar past is 175 00:09:50,660 --> 00:09:54,530 living connected to everything known in your life. 176 00:09:54,530 --> 00:09:57,800 So then what they do is they reach for their cell phone. 177 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,960 They check their texts. 178 00:09:59,960 --> 00:10:02,120 They check their Facebook. 179 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,550 They post a picture on Instagram. 180 00:10:04,550 --> 00:10:05,780 They tweet. 181 00:10:05,780 --> 00:10:06,860 They check one email. 182 00:10:06,860 --> 00:10:08,960 They check the other email. 183 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,240 They check everything that's known and familiar 184 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:12,530 in their life. 185 00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:15,200 And now they're connected to everything 186 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:18,170 familiar in their known reality. 187 00:10:18,170 --> 00:10:22,550 And they run through a series of automatic, unconscious 188 00:10:22,550 --> 00:10:25,160 behaviors in routine. 189 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:30,710 Now, a habit is a redundant set of automatic, unconscious 190 00:10:30,710 --> 00:10:33,320 thoughts, behaviors, and emotions 191 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,320 that's acquired through frequent repetition. 192 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,230 A habit is when you've done something so many times 193 00:10:39,230 --> 00:10:41,780 that your body now knows how to do it better 194 00:10:41,780 --> 00:10:44,570 than your conscious mind. 195 00:10:44,570 --> 00:10:48,630 So if a person has been living in the same routine for years 196 00:10:48,630 --> 00:10:52,980 on end, their body now is on autopilot. 197 00:10:52,980 --> 00:10:54,990 And it's dragging them as the mind 198 00:10:54,990 --> 00:10:57,180 into the predictable future. 199 00:10:57,180 --> 00:11:01,830 And they've lost their free will to a program. 200 00:11:01,830 --> 00:11:05,880 Now it's no longer that their personality is creating 201 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,590 their personal reality. 202 00:11:07,590 --> 00:11:11,460 Now their personal reality is creating their personality. 203 00:11:11,460 --> 00:11:15,990 And we can say that their environment is controlling how 204 00:11:15,990 --> 00:11:19,290 they feel and how they think. 205 00:11:19,290 --> 00:11:23,130 So then you say to a person, why are you so upset today? 206 00:11:23,130 --> 00:11:26,190 And they'll say to you, I'm upset because of this person 207 00:11:26,190 --> 00:11:28,300 or this thing in my life. 208 00:11:28,300 --> 00:11:30,030 And what they're really saying is 209 00:11:30,030 --> 00:11:33,360 that person or that circumstance in their life 210 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,840 is literally controlling their feelings and thoughts. 211 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,050 And if that is the case, by very definition, 212 00:11:40,050 --> 00:11:43,320 it means then that they are the victim to their life. 213 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,440 And that is the unconscious program that they're living by. 214 00:11:49,110 --> 00:11:52,350 So then in order for you to change, 215 00:11:52,350 --> 00:11:54,000 you're going to have to be greater 216 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,180 than the conditions in your environment. 217 00:11:57,180 --> 00:12:00,960 And every great person in history knew this. 218 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,290 They believed in a future that was already 219 00:12:04,290 --> 00:12:06,900 so alive in their mind that they began 220 00:12:06,900 --> 00:12:09,900 to live as if that future reality was happening 221 00:12:09,900 --> 00:12:12,060 in the present moment. 222 00:12:12,060 --> 00:12:16,640 And they share the same brain as you and I. 223 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:18,830 So then to change then, being greater 224 00:12:18,830 --> 00:12:21,170 than your environment means then you 225 00:12:21,170 --> 00:12:23,360 have to be greater than the circumstances 226 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:26,170 and conditions in your world. 227 00:12:26,170 --> 00:12:29,200 And as long as you're not creating anything new 228 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:33,220 in your life, every person, everything 229 00:12:33,220 --> 00:12:35,770 that's already reflected in your brain also 230 00:12:35,770 --> 00:12:39,400 then is an experience that has an emotion connected to it. 231 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,710 And we can say then when you're thinking 232 00:12:41,710 --> 00:12:44,080 equal to your environment, you'll 233 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:48,440 keep reaffirming and creating the same environment. 234 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:52,480 And finally, to change is to be greater than time. 235 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,840 And if a person's living in the familiar past, 236 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:57,790 that is called the known. 237 00:12:57,790 --> 00:13:00,610 If they're living in the predictable future, 238 00:13:00,610 --> 00:13:02,400 that is called the known. 239 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,410 And to change then is to get beyond the programs 240 00:13:05,410 --> 00:13:08,290 of the future and the conditioning of the past 241 00:13:08,290 --> 00:13:13,460 and settle into the sweet spot of the generous present moment. 242 00:13:13,460 --> 00:13:15,740 That means then you're going to have to be greater 243 00:13:15,740 --> 00:13:17,900 than that line of time. 244 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:22,760 And there is a skill and a formula that teach people 245 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,865 how to be greater than their bodies, 246 00:13:24,865 --> 00:13:26,240 to be greater than the conditions 247 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,030 in their environment, and to be greater than time. 248 00:13:33,700 --> 00:13:36,880 So in order for you to change, you're 249 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,895 going to have to cross a river. 250 00:13:38,895 --> 00:13:41,920 And the hardest part about change 251 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:46,870 is not making the same choice as you did the day before. 252 00:13:46,870 --> 00:13:48,970 So here's the old self. 253 00:13:48,970 --> 00:13:50,900 And here's the new self. 254 00:13:50,900 --> 00:13:54,670 And the moment you decide to make a different choice 255 00:13:54,670 --> 00:13:57,190 or to do something differently, you just 256 00:13:57,190 --> 00:13:59,470 stepped into that river of change. 257 00:13:59,470 --> 00:14:03,380 And get ready because it's going to feel uncomfortable. 258 00:14:03,380 --> 00:14:06,030 It's going to feel unfamiliar. 259 00:14:06,030 --> 00:14:09,110 There's going to be some uncertainty. 260 00:14:09,110 --> 00:14:12,040 There's going to be some unknowns. 261 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:13,990 And most importantly, you're not going 262 00:14:13,990 --> 00:14:17,320 to be able to predict the next moment. 263 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:18,790 Now, think about this. 264 00:14:18,790 --> 00:14:21,400 We just said that in order for you to change, 265 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,430 you have to be greater than your body. 266 00:14:24,430 --> 00:14:26,890 And the redundancy of thinking and feeling and feeling 267 00:14:26,890 --> 00:14:31,020 and thinking conditions the body into the past. 268 00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:35,060 So the body has been trained to cling to what it knows. 269 00:14:35,060 --> 00:14:38,300 And now you're taking it out into the unknown. 270 00:14:38,300 --> 00:14:41,120 And the body says, I don't like this. 271 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,370 I can't predict the future. 272 00:14:43,370 --> 00:14:47,690 And the body starts influencing our thoughts. 273 00:14:47,690 --> 00:14:50,850 And all of a sudden, we start to have these subvocalizations, 274 00:14:50,850 --> 00:14:54,470 this chatter in our head, these voices that tell us, 275 00:14:54,470 --> 00:14:56,360 start tomorrow. 276 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,190 You'll never change. 277 00:14:58,190 --> 00:14:59,990 You're too much like your mother. 278 00:14:59,990 --> 00:15:03,440 It's your ex's fault. It's your boss's fault. 279 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,630 This doesn't feel right. 280 00:15:05,630 --> 00:15:10,590 And most people listen to that thought as if it's true. 281 00:15:10,590 --> 00:15:12,670 And one of my greatest moments in my life 282 00:15:12,670 --> 00:15:14,260 is when I realized just because I 283 00:15:14,260 --> 00:15:18,370 have a thought doesn't necessarily mean it's true. 284 00:15:18,370 --> 00:15:22,930 So a person may say, I want to change something about myself. 285 00:15:22,930 --> 00:15:24,910 Today, no more blaming. 286 00:15:24,910 --> 00:15:26,500 No more complaining. 287 00:15:26,500 --> 00:15:27,940 No more suffering. 288 00:15:27,940 --> 00:15:29,800 No more self-pity. 289 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,640 And now they're disrupting that chemical continuity. 290 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:36,090 And all of a sudden, two hours goes by. 291 00:15:36,090 --> 00:15:37,960 Then after that two hours, the body 292 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,850 starts craving the conditioning of those familiar chemicals. 293 00:15:41,850 --> 00:15:43,810 And it's the body then that's influencing 294 00:15:43,810 --> 00:15:47,110 the mind for the body to return back 295 00:15:47,110 --> 00:15:48,460 to the same state of being. 296 00:15:53,550 --> 00:15:58,500 So then going from the old self to the new self 297 00:15:58,500 --> 00:16:04,470 is the neurological, the biological, the chemical, 298 00:16:04,470 --> 00:16:09,790 the hormonal, the genetic death of the old self. 299 00:16:09,790 --> 00:16:15,690 And in that place, that void, that place of uncertainty, 300 00:16:15,690 --> 00:16:20,730 is actually the perfect place to create something new. 301 00:16:20,730 --> 00:16:24,090 And people may say, I'm crossing that river of change. 302 00:16:24,090 --> 00:16:26,940 I can't predict my future. 303 00:16:26,940 --> 00:16:30,060 And the answer is, the best way to predict 304 00:16:30,060 --> 00:16:34,002 your future is to create it. 305 00:16:34,002 --> 00:16:38,040 And what thoughts do you want to fire and wire in your brain 306 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,010 and put your attention behind? 307 00:16:41,010 --> 00:16:44,940 What behaviors do you want to demonstrate in one day, 308 00:16:44,940 --> 00:16:47,840 in one lifetime? 309 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,830 The latest research in neuroscience 310 00:16:49,830 --> 00:16:52,500 says that when you close your eyes 311 00:16:52,500 --> 00:16:56,850 and rehearse an activity mentally that your brain does 312 00:16:56,850 --> 00:16:59,940 not know the difference between what's going on out there 313 00:16:59,940 --> 00:17:03,650 and what's going on in here if you're truly present. 314 00:17:03,650 --> 00:17:06,390 You begin to install the neurological hardware 315 00:17:06,390 --> 00:17:09,329 in your brain to look like you already did it. 316 00:17:09,329 --> 00:17:12,930 Now your brain is no longer a record of the past. 317 00:17:12,930 --> 00:17:15,609 Now it's literally a map to the future. 318 00:17:15,609 --> 00:17:18,780 You are priming your brain into the future. 319 00:17:18,780 --> 00:17:20,940 And if you keep doing it over and over again, 320 00:17:20,940 --> 00:17:26,190 firing and wiring, that hardware will become a software program. 321 00:17:26,190 --> 00:17:27,300 And who knows? 322 00:17:27,300 --> 00:17:30,840 You just may start acting like an abundant person. 323 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,650 You may start thinking that you're healthy. 324 00:17:34,650 --> 00:17:36,048 Why? 325 00:17:36,048 --> 00:17:37,590 Because you installed those circuits. 326 00:17:43,660 --> 00:17:45,220 Now here's the hard part. 327 00:17:45,220 --> 00:17:49,360 Can you teach your body emotionally 328 00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:54,190 what that future will feel like before it's made manifest? 329 00:17:54,190 --> 00:17:56,920 That means you can't wait for your wealth 330 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,320 to feel worthiness and abundance. 331 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,650 You can't wait for your success to feel empowered. 332 00:18:02,650 --> 00:18:07,270 You can't wait for your new relationship to feel love. 333 00:18:07,270 --> 00:18:12,370 You can't wait for your healing to feel gratitude or wholeness. 334 00:18:12,370 --> 00:18:16,210 You can't wait for the mystical moment to feel awe. 335 00:18:16,210 --> 00:18:21,160 That's the old model of reality, of cause and effect, 336 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,710 waiting for something outside of us 337 00:18:23,710 --> 00:18:25,900 to give us relief from the emptiness 338 00:18:25,900 --> 00:18:27,940 and pain we feel inside of us. 339 00:18:27,940 --> 00:18:31,930 And some people will spend their whole life living in lack, 340 00:18:31,930 --> 00:18:34,030 waiting for something to change. 341 00:18:34,030 --> 00:18:37,990 And if you're waiting, then you're not creating. 342 00:18:37,990 --> 00:18:41,710 The quantum model of reality is about causing effect. 343 00:18:41,710 --> 00:18:46,060 The moment you start feeling abundant and worthy, 344 00:18:46,060 --> 00:18:48,430 you are generating wealth. 345 00:18:48,430 --> 00:18:52,240 The moment you start embracing the feeling of empowerment, 346 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,970 you are stepping towards your success. 347 00:18:54,970 --> 00:18:58,360 The moment you're in love with yourself and in love with life, 348 00:18:58,360 --> 00:19:00,190 you will create an equal. 349 00:19:00,190 --> 00:19:02,780 And the moment you start feeling grateful 350 00:19:02,780 --> 00:19:06,600 and you start feeling whole, your healing begins. 351 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:10,370 And the moment you are in awe of life, 352 00:19:10,370 --> 00:19:14,080 you will have a mystical experience. 353 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:17,200 Now that's causing an effect. 354 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:22,150 And so from going from one state of mind and body, the old self, 355 00:19:22,150 --> 00:19:25,610 into a new state of mind and body, a new self, 356 00:19:25,610 --> 00:19:27,580 and crossing that river means there'll 357 00:19:27,580 --> 00:19:31,070 be new opportunities, new experiences, 358 00:19:31,070 --> 00:19:33,910 new events in your life because you're no longer the old self. 359 00:19:39,460 --> 00:19:41,470 So the biological model of change 360 00:19:41,470 --> 00:19:44,570 then is breaking the habit of the old self 361 00:19:44,570 --> 00:19:46,780 and reinventing the new self. 362 00:19:46,780 --> 00:19:48,910 It's pruning synaptic connections 363 00:19:48,910 --> 00:19:52,660 and sprouting new connections, no longer signaling 364 00:19:52,660 --> 00:19:55,210 the same genes in the same way, and learning 365 00:19:55,210 --> 00:19:59,200 how to signal new genes in new ways. 366 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,010 Now, what I want you to know is that you already 367 00:20:03,010 --> 00:20:05,810 know how to do this. 368 00:20:05,810 --> 00:20:08,690 Every one of us has done something great in our lives. 369 00:20:08,690 --> 00:20:10,340 And what happened when we decided 370 00:20:10,340 --> 00:20:12,980 to make up our mind to create something 371 00:20:12,980 --> 00:20:15,260 or to do something differently? 372 00:20:15,260 --> 00:20:18,200 We ask ourselves the question, is it possible 373 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,970 that I can be healthy? 374 00:20:19,970 --> 00:20:22,280 Is it possible that I can have the job of my dreams 375 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,500 or the relationship of my dreams? 376 00:20:24,500 --> 00:20:27,620 And what would that look like? 377 00:20:27,620 --> 00:20:29,750 When you asked that question, you 378 00:20:29,750 --> 00:20:31,880 turned on the creative center in your brain 379 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,980 called your "frontal lobe." 380 00:20:33,980 --> 00:20:37,640 And think of your frontal lobe as the symphony leader. 381 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,370 And it has connections to all parts of the brain. 382 00:20:41,370 --> 00:20:43,820 So what it does is it naturally calls up 383 00:20:43,820 --> 00:20:46,790 different networks of neurons that are associated 384 00:20:46,790 --> 00:20:49,010 with that question based on the things 385 00:20:49,010 --> 00:20:52,760 you've learned intellectually in your life and the experiences 386 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,560 that you've had as well. 387 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:58,460 And it begins to seamlessly piece them together. 388 00:20:58,460 --> 00:21:00,170 The next thing you see is an image 389 00:21:00,170 --> 00:21:02,180 or a picture in your mind. 390 00:21:02,180 --> 00:21:04,970 And that's called "intention." 391 00:21:04,970 --> 00:21:10,540 And now you are selecting a new possibility of your future. 392 00:21:10,540 --> 00:21:13,360 When you saw that image, you saw that picture in your mind. 393 00:21:13,360 --> 00:21:14,860 The next thing you know, you started 394 00:21:14,860 --> 00:21:16,450 to feel the emotion as if you were 395 00:21:16,450 --> 00:21:20,500 living in that future reality in the present moment. 396 00:21:20,500 --> 00:21:22,540 And we could say then the moment you started 397 00:21:22,540 --> 00:21:25,990 feeling the emotion, the thought became the experience 398 00:21:25,990 --> 00:21:27,340 in your mind. 399 00:21:27,340 --> 00:21:30,760 And you were giving your body a sampling 400 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,670 or a taste of the future. 401 00:21:33,670 --> 00:21:36,100 Now here's what you did when that happened. 402 00:21:36,100 --> 00:21:39,070 You started thinking about all the choices you had to make. 403 00:21:39,070 --> 00:21:40,870 And you wrote them down. 404 00:21:40,870 --> 00:21:43,030 You started to think about all those experiences 405 00:21:43,030 --> 00:21:46,110 that would get you to that vision, all those goals. 406 00:21:46,110 --> 00:21:48,100 And every time you wrote those goals down, 407 00:21:48,100 --> 00:21:50,650 you felt more of those feelings. 408 00:21:50,650 --> 00:21:52,670 And you kept reviewing them in your mind 409 00:21:52,670 --> 00:21:57,250 so you can put your conscious mind on what you wanted. 410 00:21:57,250 --> 00:21:59,900 And then you did something really brilliantly. 411 00:21:59,900 --> 00:22:02,950 You started to write down the thoughts that you wouldn't let 412 00:22:02,950 --> 00:22:06,400 slip by your awareness unnoticed, thoughts like, 413 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,270 I can't. 414 00:22:07,270 --> 00:22:08,290 It's too hard. 415 00:22:08,290 --> 00:22:10,120 I'll never change. 416 00:22:10,120 --> 00:22:12,490 Those are thoughts that if you respond to them 417 00:22:12,490 --> 00:22:15,500 will cause you to lose sight of your future. 418 00:22:15,500 --> 00:22:17,610 And every day you reminded yourself 419 00:22:17,610 --> 00:22:19,160 of who you wanted to be. 420 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:20,710 And every day you reminded yourself 421 00:22:20,710 --> 00:22:23,290 of who you no longer wanted to be. 422 00:22:23,290 --> 00:22:27,370 And then you started seeing synchronicities, opportunities, 423 00:22:27,370 --> 00:22:31,480 coincidences beginning to show up in your life. 424 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,100 And that's the universe telling you 425 00:22:33,100 --> 00:22:35,900 that you're heading towards a new future. 426 00:22:35,900 --> 00:22:39,760 And when it finally happened, it was no longer about the event. 427 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,540 It was about the fact that you created it. 428 00:22:43,540 --> 00:22:46,240 And so then the side effect of that 429 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:50,530 is we become more whole, more present, more loving 430 00:22:50,530 --> 00:22:54,340 because now we're living life less in lack. 431 00:23:00,690 --> 00:23:03,120 There's only three things that stop us 432 00:23:03,120 --> 00:23:05,310 from that vision of the future-- 433 00:23:05,310 --> 00:23:09,300 the body, the environment, and time. 434 00:23:09,300 --> 00:23:11,920 Number one, the body. 435 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,130 Most people say, I didn't feel like it. 436 00:23:14,130 --> 00:23:15,250 Or, I don't feel like it. 437 00:23:15,250 --> 00:23:16,050 I'm tired. 438 00:23:16,050 --> 00:23:17,710 I have a headache. 439 00:23:17,710 --> 00:23:21,480 And they use feelings as a barometer for change. 440 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,450 And when you use feelings as a barometer for change, 441 00:23:24,450 --> 00:23:28,410 you'll always talk yourself out of possibility. 442 00:23:28,410 --> 00:23:29,820 The environment. 443 00:23:29,820 --> 00:23:31,077 I have these people to see. 444 00:23:31,077 --> 00:23:32,160 I have these places to go. 445 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,150 I have these things to do. 446 00:23:34,150 --> 00:23:36,720 Their environments seduce them back 447 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,330 into their present reality. 448 00:23:39,330 --> 00:23:41,400 The last one is time. 449 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,450 There just wasn't enough time. 450 00:23:44,450 --> 00:23:47,580 And people shrink back into mediocrity. 451 00:23:47,580 --> 00:23:50,160 And they find people that do the same. 452 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,110 And then they use each other to reaffirm 453 00:23:52,110 --> 00:23:54,180 their addiction or their conditioning 454 00:23:54,180 --> 00:23:56,490 into victimization. 455 00:23:56,490 --> 00:24:00,270 So then when you're at that lowest level in your life 456 00:24:00,270 --> 00:24:03,210 where they don't want to keep their social engagements, 457 00:24:03,210 --> 00:24:05,460 they could actually see themselves 458 00:24:05,460 --> 00:24:07,650 through the eyes of someone else. 459 00:24:07,650 --> 00:24:11,400 And in neuroscience, that's called "metacognition." 460 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,980 And now they're beginning to observe their thoughts. 461 00:24:13,980 --> 00:24:16,382 They're beginning to notice their behaviors. 462 00:24:16,382 --> 00:24:18,090 They're looking at the feelings that they 463 00:24:18,090 --> 00:24:19,757 were living by and saying, I didn't even 464 00:24:19,757 --> 00:24:21,150 know I was suffering. 465 00:24:21,150 --> 00:24:24,000 It just feels like how I always lived. 466 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,120 And the act of observing those states of mind and body 467 00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:29,340 means they're no longer the program. 468 00:24:29,340 --> 00:24:32,190 Now they're the consciousness observing the program. 469 00:24:32,190 --> 00:24:34,230 And that's the first step to change. 470 00:24:38,490 --> 00:24:42,000 Now that you have this basic model of how change works, 471 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,430 how do you take this information and use 472 00:24:44,430 --> 00:24:47,175 it to create a future self? 473 00:24:47,175 --> 00:24:51,040 If where we place our attention is where we place our energy, 474 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,660 how do we direct our attention to what we want in our life 475 00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:57,900 instead of what we don't want in our life? 476 00:24:57,900 --> 00:25:02,610 In the next episode, we'll dive into demystifying meditation 477 00:25:02,610 --> 00:25:06,270 and how to find the sweet spot of the generous present moment 478 00:25:06,270 --> 00:25:09,150 where you can begin to create a new future. 479 00:25:09,150 --> 00:25:12,690 I'm your host, Dr. Joe Dispenza for the series "Rewired." 480 00:25:12,690 --> 00:25:14,910 And I hope to see you in the next episode, where 481 00:25:14,910 --> 00:25:19,190 we go beyond the ordinary into the extraordinary.